[hold|bear|have] a grudge
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to hold negative feelings toward a person who has done one wrong in the past
The idiom "hold a grudge" has its origins in the Middle Ages when the word "grutch" was used to refer to a complaint or grievance. Over time, "grutch" evolved into "grudge," taking on the meaning of harboring resentment or ill will due to a perceived wrong or injustice. The concept of "holding" onto negative feelings towards someone or something, much like holding onto an object, led to the development of the phrase "hold a grudge." It is used to describe situations where individuals continue to bear ill will or anger over past conflicts, disagreements, or perceived wrongdoings.
- She still holds a grudge against her sister for borrowing her favorite dress without asking.
- Despite their efforts to resolve the issue, he continues to bear a grudge against his coworker for taking credit for his idea.
- Having a grudge against her former best friend, she found it hard to trust new people in her life.
- He couldn't let go of the grudge he had against his neighbor for repeatedly playing loud music late at night.
- It's time to forgive and forget; otherwise, you'll continue to hold a grudge, and it will only harm your own peace of mind.